[jenjennn]

I’m not sure what you’re wearing that would make men want to grab you, but when I had a similar experience I went to my guy friends who told me it was my clothing. They had said to simply wear more baggy clothing (that means NOTHING accentuating my curves: nothing skin tight), wear a baseball hat, and basically dress more like a tomboy. It was weird at first since it’s not “me” but it worked! Basically the baggy clothing and hat was like putting on a bitch shield. Also, putting on headphones (with no music on) deterred unwanted approaches. Silly me, I was wearing tight jeans and a tight top, and didn’t realize this was making all the guys drool over me and drawing unwanted attention to me. Guys are visual creatures, I understand that, but unwanted touching is crossing a line, so these are the steps I took to prevent it.

Also, I would look to see if you can find a guy you can trust at your workplace and request to work with him. Having another guy around you will intimidate other guys from grabbing at you randombly, just like having a bouncer at a strip club. I find these problems don’t occur when I’m with guy friends or with more classy or educated men. Ok, I’ve rambled too long. Hope all or some of this helps! Kisses!