SissyBuns
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Awww…hell yeah! Sissybuns, this has been one of the best posts ever! Thanks for sharing the order of how you learned the moves!!! Sometimes, talking it out really helps! I didn’t even know that a reverse aysha existed but after watching some vids decided to give it a shot since you said you learned that one first and guess what…I did it! It was a little shaky one (no where near what you do) but I did it! I’m gonna stick with this one for awhile and practice on both sides to build up my arm and core strength before the I give the regular aysha a go! Thank you so so much! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
My hub jokingly sent me a text this morning bf work saying to learn a new move to show him tonight. I got an archer and a reverse aysha today! Can’t wait to see the look on his face! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_queen.gif
One question on the reverse aysha: as I keep trying it, I notice that my woman area is still touching the pole when my legs go out. Is that how it’s supposed to be or will I get further away from the pole as I get better? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif
https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif Yay! Yay! yay!!!!!!! I’m so happy you got it and I’m so happy my little adventures helped! LOL.
Post a vid! I wanna see your reverse aysha and your archer…I’m not even sure what an archer is LOL But I wanna see it!
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I’m with littlec, I just need to freakin do it already! I might try it split grip cause that’s how I feel best about extended butterfly. It looks like you just stick the other foot off. Well, you made it seem easy, we’ll see! Did you learn split grip first for extended butterfly and straight edge? Do you think straight edge or straight edge split is easiest?
Hi Carrie,
I think (personally) the straight edge spit is easier then the straight edge because I felt it was easier to balance myself with my legs open. Holding myself up in a straight edge, keeping my body in a straight line was harder for me. But that’s just me. I also got a reverse aysha before I could do the aysha or straight edge. I think I’m just all over the place. LOL -
sissy you ROCK !
Thanks JayJay and everyone else!
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I’d love to see a video of your chair to see what’s going wrong.
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ahahhahaha have you seen lady in the water ^^
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! The guy who only worked one arm! He had one big ass buff arm and one tiny normal sized one LOL.
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omg, i haven’t been on the site in awhile, well more like lurking here and there because of school and stuff, but now im trying to be back- sissybuns you poor little thing! im so so sorry that you’ve been in such pain all this time and you’ve been such a trooper about it too by hardly complaining at all when you’ve been hurting so badly https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif im so happy that you’re finally getting answers, how scary and frustratng that must have been when the first doctor just shrugged. im so happy that you’re gonna be alright; maybe there will be some recovery time but now theres hope for a painLESS life!! (btw, im so excited to meet you at the jam!!)
I’m so excited to meet you too!!! I actually could have had my surgery scheduled way earlier, but I wanted to be able to walk at the Jam LOL. So I’m doing it after that. The jam is going to be my grand finale before I go under the knife! A great way to go out on a high note, I think https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif .
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Question: Will all of us be staying in the area on saturday night? Is there anything planned?
I was thinking maybe we could go to the Pole Pressure Xmas party in DC…it starts at 8… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/alien.gif
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well…im sure the style of surgery has changed throughout the years, and my case was pretty severe…do ur arches touch the floor and bruise? they had to shave many bones in my foot, move bones around, and they also put a Z-cut in my achilles tendon to lengthen it…maybe its different for u? i dont remember how long i had the cast on, but yes, i lost all of my muscle and couldn’t walk at all…my leg was so skinny compared to the other…it was very scary to not be able to walk…i remember falling alot in rehab because i told myself it was all in my head and i could walk…like in kill bill…you can do it, wiggle ur toes…haha…i hope your case is better than mine was…and i hope i didnt scare u!!! i only meant to prepare u!! XO
LOL, it’s ok I’m not scared, just really shocked at your story. I think your case was more severe then mine and there are some differences in what I’m having done as opposed to what you had done.
I don’t need the achilles tendon lengthening because I have enough flexibility in my achillies tendon (they think that some of that flexibility may be part of the problem) already so I won’t have that done. I am not having any bones shaved or cut, he’s inserting an artifical bone type wedge into my foot (he can explain it to you better then I can LOL) that’s going to naturally recreate my arch and be held in place with tension. There’s a possibility he may have to do a second procedure that involves placing screws into my heel but he will decide that while he’s in there but there won’t be any rearranging of bones. Your procedure sounds very aggressive https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif is that foot better at least?
Funny you mention Kill Bill because that’s the first thing I thought of when you mentioned falling down and having to learn to walk again LOL. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif
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Hurray for good prectices! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gif
I look forward to seeing those videos!
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DAMN! i didnt think anything was going on friday night so i only booked my room for Saturday… I’m going to see if i can add Friday night onto my hotel reservation so i can join you all in the festivities https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif ill let you know for sure ASAP. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
WAIT! Don’t book anything yet…It was just an idea and I haven’t decided officially! LOL I’ll let you know if I do https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
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I like those stretches you mentioned, especially the ones where you’re on your back. I forgot about that one…
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also, keep in mind (i dont want to scare u, but u should know) that after the surgery, it takes a LONG time to heal, and u will be in a wheelchair, then crutches, then go to rehab to learn to walk again…and u will lose ALL the muscle tone in one leg (they will only do surgery on one foot at a time…i tried to get both feet done at once, and they said its not possible…) and u will have to learn to walk again. i know this sounds really scary…but really…my right leg did NOt work for a long time…imagine trying to step on one of your feet and falling to the ground because there is no muscle left… Only get the surgery if u REALLY REALLY need it… I can send u pics of my feet if you want. Good luck with everything…
but on a positive note…if u can pole in a wheelchair, u will be my new hero https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cheers.gifhttps://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_confused.gif
I don’t expect to lose ALL muscle tone after being in a cast for 6 weeks…did that really happen to you? I had to wear a cast for much longer than that in the past (when I broke my leg, down at the ankle) and my recovery was pretty quick. Once the cast came off I was walking just fine… https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_scratch.gif
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Ok…im in a bit of a rush, so i didnt read all the comments, but im a pro with this subject. I was a ballerina for 6 years when I was little, and then i had to stop because my feet were hurting so bad (i also stopped complaining about it because my mom used to tell me to stop whining…) then we found out that i had flat feet…it was so bad that i had recorrective surgery on one of my feet, and should have had it done to the other, but never did. because of the flat feet, horrible cramps are caused (especially when pointing the toes). I’ve found (with azriel’s help) that bananas help with the cramping… but, depending on how bad ur feet are, maybe u should get some orthodics (they are expensive, and i actually got them but stopped wearing them after a few years because they annoyed me… but keep in mind that when ur feet point out, it then messes up the ways your knees move, and hips, and back, and neck (so do anything u cacn to prevent further injury)….iv been having problems with this all my life… going to a chiropractor helps to realign your body so that everything else doesnt hurt so bad…. but honestly, my arches actually touch the floor and bruise…and its just something iv learned to deal with…after awhile, u wont notice the pain unless ur on ur feet too much (my doc always told me to have a sit-down job….and to stay off my feet as much as i can) there are also some stretching exercises u can do, but (not to sound hopeless) i’ve been dealing with this for 15 years now, and not much has changed, but now i hardly notice it. i know it really sucks, but the best thing u can do is to stay off ur feet when u can, and elevate them 20 minutes a day (at least once) and soak them in warm water…pampering them will help a little. i know this didnt help much, but i just wanted u to know that ur not the only one, and it will get better…unfortunately, only after it gets worse. if u have any questions, let me know. xo
Thats really sad that you have been having so much pain for so long. I’ve only been going through my ordeal for about 7 months and it’s already pushed me to my limit. I cant imagine several years.
I’m actually on my feet all day because I’m a nurse LOL, so resting my feet never really was an option unless I take time off. I have already been put on limited duty which means I can’t stand any more then 20 minutes at a time, but I still have work to do and can’t really tell my patients to hold on while I go take a break LOL. The doc I work with has been real helpful though. He’s been trying to do more of the walking and standing and helping me with my work so I can sit, which makes me sick because I want to be able to do my job and not have others have pick up my slack, but it’s what I gotta do for now https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif.
I’m on my second pair of orthotics already. The first pair hurt like hell but these are better so I’m working on breaking them in.
The toe pointing thing is driving me crazy! I taped my practice last night and I watched myself on the video flex my feet like 100 times because they were cramping up. I think dancing in heels more will help because they kind of point the toe for me in a relaxed way, but if I wear them too long it hurts LOL.
And you’re so right about the pampering though. Soaking my feet in scolding hot water feels soooooo good! I have this little foot spa thing that has vibrating rolloers on the bottom that I can roll my feet over while they soak, but alas…a foot soak doesn’t repair bone https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif
I wish it did! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_razz.gif
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How many people will be here on Friday?
I’m thinking about having a mixer of sorts at my house on Friday night before we head out to the nudey bar. It would be a time for people to meet eachother and chit chat before we attack the pole on Saturday.
What do you guys think? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
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LOL Sissy, I figured you’d be doing it a lot now. When I got my cartwheel mount handspring I was so excited about it that I did it every time I was near a pole for weeks. Funny thing is, nailing my handspring was what gave me confidence (and probably strength) to do inverted split grip moves. That’s what I want to do all the time now too… so we’re kind of in the same boat! I just love doing the straight edge in split grip.
I love doing anything in split grip! LOL, it’s my fav!
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Soo…I went back to the doc again today and we made the final surgical desicion and put the wheels in motion to get it done. On December 31st I’ll be having an Evans Calcaneal Osteotomy or Arch Repair in english, LOL.
It’s on New years eve which is wack but I didn’t want to do it before the pole jam in December because I want to be able to pole, so the jam will be my last big hurrah before going into a cast for 9 weeks. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
I’m totally excited about getting fixed up! It’s gonna suck being in a cast and I’m worrying about losing flexibility and range of motion in that ankle but it must be done. I’ll be in physical therapy afterwards for a while too and then after that’s all healed up and can bear all of my bodies weight, I’ll have the right foot done!
It’s going to be a year of surgeries and recovering.
I won’t be able to do Miss Xpose this year https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif but I’m going to be the first to sign up next year! Maybe this is a sign that I should wait anyway lol. I’ve only been dancing 6 months and probably not ready for a competiton, even if it’s a small local one LOL. It sure was gonna be fun though…
Pole plan? Do as much as I can do whenever I can do it. I’ve gotten some good suggestions on poling from the floor or on a ball and I’m going to try all of that. I’ll still have one good foot so I can still do lot’s of stuff hopefully, but we’ll see. The way I see it, by the time I come out of this my upper body strength should be pretty damn impressive! LOL https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_lol.gif
Thanks so much for supporting me guys and I know you’ll be there with me every step of the way. Veena I haven’t fogotten about that challenge in my honor, I think everyone should do it with one foot wrapped up. LOL
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… Uhhhhm.
I wouldn’t mind being a designated driver for Strip Club Friday. I don’t drink, but being the DD would give me an excellent excuse to be a sober breast-gazer.
I’ll take you up on that cuz I sho likes to get my drank on! LOL
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Wow–this looks like great fun. I was aware something was in the works–and my sister lives in DC, so I would’ve had a free place to stay. But My mom’s Birthday is Christmas Day…and everybody comes HERE, lol–to Chicago. So it’s a crazy week and it all falls on Laurie to do all the cooking and I help do all the other stuff. So, no travelling for me that week!
I have to tell you…if it were 500 miles or less, I would just hop in my car and drive!! –Just to meet Azriel all the way from Greece. I know for sure I will meet the rest of you here in the US one day. I am trying to see if I can go to USPDF in March of 2010…
So, somebody could bring a lap-top with a web-cam, right? And webmaster could open the chat video window from California, right? Live pole jam on SV???
Have fun, everybody…and Fleur…hope all your workshops are filled to the capacity!
Joel
Well if you’re going to the USPDF in march I’ll surely see you there! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_biggrin.gif
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I hope someone is going to be posting vids of this! I’m so sad I can’t be there!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_cry.gif
heh someone dun know meh too well ^^
if theres enough room for me ull see vdos https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_mrgreen.gif
They don’t call her "TMZ" for nothing!
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According to a certain feline among our ranks, it’s going to be off the hook!
So you’re planning to come? You may have already said that in chat but I tend to be drinking on Friday nights and sometimes I forget things, LOL.
I’m super excited for you guys to meet up! I love love love meeting SV peeps and I can’t wait for the upcoming videos!
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I’m still pretty pissed at myself for not seeing it in action even though I was like.. four feet away.
I know! You so weren’t even paying attention to me https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_sad.gif You’re so self centered! LOL
Stellar I am probably going to be doing this all the time because I love it! And it’s the coolest thing I can do so far, LOL.
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herm..
personally i think if were paying $35.. there should be more than 19 =)
cuz.. id really like to meet everyone ^^Are you trying to come???? https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_surprised.gif
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Az Kilala is bring a friend so she needs to be added to the list.
I believe that fills the last slot, does it not?
I wonder if we can have more then 19….
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omg! that’s so exciting!!!! where are you staying fleur?????
im trying to book my flight now, but im not sure if i should book it friday-sun or sat-sun……when are people getting there?? on friday? or saturday????? is anything going on friday night?
I plan on taking Roxy Pink to a strip club on Friday night so if anyone wants to come they are more then welcome! loL Plus drinks and pole at my house before and after!
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sissy, you sure you don’t mind picking us up?? that would mean so much to me!!! i’ll book the flight tonight then if you don’t mind https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
kari- did you book the room yet? i was thinking to save costs, what if we got a double bed and then i can sleep on the floor- that way we can split a much cheaper room…it’s just one night and ive been sleeping on the floor for over a year now lol! so its no big deal at all https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif what do you think?
IM SO EXCITED GIRLS!!!!! https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_smile.gif
Yeah I can pick you up! BWI is sooo close to me! It’s not a big deal. I plan on taking Friday off just for this occasion! LOL Just call me your personal taxi!
if you guys can fly in around the same time that would be best LOL, but I dont mind going back and forth a couple of times. https://www.studioveena.com/img/smilies/icon_e_wink.gif This is important!
