[Lindz1980]

Nice one ladies, will enjoy checking out your recommendations, thank you 😊

[Lindz1980]

Sorry you are having a tough time….as many of the ladies have already said it does sound like he has a porn addiction that will need professional help to work through- trouble is if he’s not willing to admit it’s a problem then he won’t get help, and as with any kind of addiction it’s only the addict themselves who can do the work, unfortunately you can’t do it for them, no matter how much you love them. Personally I would say the constant lies are really not OK as they destroy the trust in your relationship and you end up questioning everything which is so exhausting….I think telling you that you are the one with the problem is fairly classic behaviour when somebody isn’t ready to face their issues. Only you know what your limit for his behaviour is, but as others said strong boundaries are really important and not being afraid to really stand up for them-you deserve to be respected and treated with love.Wishing you all the best xx

[Lindz1980]

Xpole sending a replacement ☺

[Lindz1980]

Thanks ladies….have tried to add pic – it’s just the top adaptor that joins pole to dome that seems to be the prob (I think….no experience of putting poles up!)

[Lindz1980]

Ah, so pleased you found the tapping helpful 🙂 What a shame about your cranial experience – I too live in a small town about ten years in the past, so totally get that! All blessings on your day xx

[Lindz1980]

You may have already tried this, but I was recently recommended EFT (emotional freedom technique) for dealing with sugar issues- not had chance to try yet but hear lots of good things! There are YouTube how to clips and it’s easy to do…I also found cranial sacral therapy hugely helpful for releasing anxiety / trauma from the body- so powerful but gentle and can also be great for tummy issues….wishing you strength on your healing journey xx

[Lindz1980]

Good tips, thanks! Like the skype idea…where I live is probably about 3.5 hour drive to the nearest pole studio! MAybe could book a few lessons over a weekend or something though and go every couple months for a top up..x

[Lindz1980]

Thanks so much ladies 🙂 Really helpful – been so inspired watching the videos, excited to get started xx

[Lindz1980]

thanks 🙂