[JennyBacardi]

last post is from 2 years ago but i just came upon it so i thought i would respond anyway

Dear body

Im sorry for always comparing you to girls who are just made different than you, im sorry for rejecting you, putting you down and making you feel fat when you really arent that big, im sorry for making you feel ugly because you have small boobs and stuffing you in push up bras to make you bigger…when small boobs rock 😉 im sorry for staring at you in disgust, at all your extra fat and stretch marks…when i should be congratulating you that those stretch marks are there because yes you gained alot of weight…but you were able to lose it. Im sorry legs for hiding you when people said you looked big when i should have showed you off because your not big..its muscles from excercise and being able to do awesome pole moves that strippers cant even do. Im sorry for over plucking my eyebrows that to me were 'big and ugly' when so many people told me ' you know some girls would kill to have those eyebrows' and after years of over plucking i can never get them back. Im sorry for making you wear high heels to be taller when you are just beautiful short..and by the way you are not short…youre just your height. IM sorry for all the years of making you feel awful and instead of taking care of you i just stuffed you with loads of bad food and chocolate…and then putting you down even more for eating it. Im sorry body because you are beautiful just the way you are.

 

thank you londoncalling it felt good to do this 🙂

[JennyBacardi]

yo soy muy jealous! i want to habla espanol tambien!

i only speak a little bit of spanish but i would love to be fluent!

would anyone want to teach me?

muy gracias lol

[JennyBacardi]

im a huuuge fan of burlesque and i havent found a any dvds but i usually go on youtube they have some good videos that show different ways to take off gloves and such.

check for:

new york school of burlesque

the goddess workout burlesque

i always have fun watching these videos

by the way you girls seem to be amazingly fun to hang out with 😛 just sayin 😉

 

 

[JennyBacardi]

yay good for you *thumbs up* 🙂

im starting to learn how to do the crucifix and its not easy so congrats on getting it!

[JennyBacardi]

I loveeee tattoos!!

but it sucks when your whole tattoo has to revolve around work

with that said, some places are totally tolerable while some places(even some mcdonalds -_-) dont even accept visible tattoos. I can only imagine in a more profesional place how it must be, but like some other girls said it all depends on the boss.

the best thing to do would be to put it somewhere that you can show(if thats what you want) but can easily be covered up if need be.

[JennyBacardi]

where I go we get each our own pole, and other studios around where I am each student has their own pole. I wouldnt want to share either i dont think its fair to either person that has to share.

[JennyBacardi]

i had a vaginal infection once and my gyno told me that most woman have infections at least once in their lives.

One reason for infections is if you use saliva for lube when having sex so thats a big no no.

keep going to the bathroom after sex that will help, and use condoms and if you dont use any make sure you are both clean before having sex to eliminate the risk of infection. I hope this helps.

[JennyBacardi]

@Evarut

Its true that most breasts go with your body size and fat or whatever, but we have so much pressure to have big breasts because you see everywhere that whats considered beautiful and feminine is big breasts. its hard for us small breasted girl to get noticed because who is a guy going to look at, 2 girls equally beautiful but one with big breasts and one with small breasts…they one with the big breasts is going to be the one who is looked at. Of course we dont want guys to look  just at our bodies but from experience its been very hard on my self esteem.

we should start a small boobs campaign lol well actually all boobs of every shape and size is beautiful

[JennyBacardi]

I believe POle Fitness Ottawa has aerial silk workshops

[JennyBacardi]

@runemist34: yes i believe you, i worked at La Senza and different bra sizes are sometimes equivalent to another size…weird but true,

@xcandycoatedx: we always want whats on the other side of the fence as they say but at 22 im starting to have more confidence in myself( poling has helped alot ! ) and starting to accept my tiny boobs but with the magic of sexy la senza bras and a sexy shirt ive got it goin on 😉 but sometimes its so easy to loose confidence because we live in a world where beauty= big boobs but we have to learn to rock what we got and show the world that small breasts also has awesome advantages and are still hot 😉

[JennyBacardi]

if you lose weight its normal for breasts to get smaller but i notice for my breasts(32A) that they have gotten a little perkier..so theyve gotten a teenie tiny bit bigger which im really excited about lol.

and like tiggertail said…if anyone would want to share id love to have some of your breast!

and runemist34, i hope its true that boobs grow til were 25 because im 22and havent seen thme grow in a long time, plus i only started getting boobs at like 16 i think…seriously i need a boob miracle….

 

[JennyBacardi]

i found a name and i was like THATS THE ONE! looked it up…and a supermodel has a name thats very close to what i chose….so thats down the toilet bowl…

back to thinking….

[JennyBacardi]

i was also wondering about that…

[JennyBacardi]

oooh i like that

thanks!

[JennyBacardi]

I just bought the burlesque handbook 🙂

started reading it and absolutely love it, very interesting and seems to be very useful for someone like me. Thanks for letting me know about this book

[JennyBacardi]

wow great performance! 😀

I agree with what the girls say…

 

[JennyBacardi]

i forgot to add location!! very important

for us people that dont drive or have a car, being close to a metro station or easy to get to by bus is definitely an advantage

 

[JennyBacardi]

I like weekly classes as well as drop ins, since i dont have a regular work schedule having to go to a pole class the same day every week might be difficult.

I also look for a teacher that has a certification of some sort in fitness.

 

[JennyBacardi]

hello from montreal

it was 20degrees here today 🙂

welcome to studio veena!

[JennyBacardi]

we must do this again!!! 🙂

im so glad i met all you girls, and thanks to the girls who helped me out with new moves 🙂

[JennyBacardi]

sturcotte im so in!! 😛

[JennyBacardi]

yummy! 🙂

[JennyBacardi]

im no expert on this but i can tell you that I have 2 friends that did the P90X and it got them in crazy amazing shape. They were sore for a while,the first few weeks since they were really out of shape but since you do pole im guessing it might not be too long before you stop being sore. hope this helps and good luck!

[JennyBacardi]

merci beaucoup tiggertail cest tres apprecier 🙂

[JennyBacardi]

i dont have a car, i get around by bus and metro :S