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AHAHAHA! oh my gosh, nerd moment, but from my potato phone I thought you posted two threads at the same time about EGA because my screen is small and crappy and your picture and katana’s look very similar if I’m not paying attention/being a nerd.
Just wanted to share my goofism. :p
Anyway. I personally like straight edge to gemini to jade. Or aysha to superinvert/shoulder mount. You can do elbow grip asha to elbowgrip sm if you train yourself for that grip, and it’s very fitting for some performance pieces.
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holy lake carp, batman. That oversplit. I don’t even. How to words? Gosh, I felt amazing for getting a slight oversplit on my left side and now I feel bad.
Especially because a dog can do middlesplits (but I wouldn’t be surprised if it was photoshopped or fake dog.)
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I love my nuvaring. It's comfortable, and I always forget mine is there. My inner lady parts are oddly shaped though. My cervix is much closer to the surface than most women, but since it's made to contract poses no issues during sex. If you have shallow lady parts, just fold it twice (the same way you would with a windshield visor) and you're good to go :3
Twice a month is a heck of a lot easier than every day. I pair my nuvaring with an app on my phone called Ovuview that reminds me when I should have my period. When it says close to 15 days I start reminding myself every day that I have to take it out on Saturday. The best part is, you can safely skip your period three times if you'd like, pushing your annual menstration count to 4! FOUR PERIODS A YEAR. THAT'S ONE BOX OF TAMPONS~! I've been doing that for the past three years and have no complaints. If you want to have your period once a month (I did that my first year on nuvaring) you can still use a diva cup or a tampon while you have your nuvaring installed. Although I will mention after I took a two month break, when I came back I had some seriously weird stomach ache symptoms. In the morning when I woke up I had serious unpleasent waterworks in the backdoor. It went away after two weeks, and only happened when I woke up. But, strange because it didn't happen the first time I tried nuvaring, or after my first break. Bodies are weird, yo.
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Haha, thanks! I didn't know anyone had watched the video submissions yet, but it's good to know that people here are interested enough to watch submissions. With these sort of things, if I'm not participating I usually will only watch winners and runner's up. But since I'm actually taking the initiative, I've tried to watch all the highlights so far. I've only had time to watch AdAstra's and HyperHorseGirls, but I'm more or less enjoying everyone's support. It feels like the strings of the net that make SV are tightening :3
ANYWAY. On topic;
I'll definitely give it a try. Tendinits is a biatch to deal with. I've been trying to strengthen my forearms so I don't get it in my left elbow again, but I don't think I'm doing it right. I haven't SEEN any progress in anything but definition. Basically, it's been like I trade in my 20 year old care for a 6 year old car with new paint and shiney chrome detailing–but in all reality, it's the same car on the inside, just with a different outside. I don't feel like moves are any easier or that there is less strain on my elbow–more or less, the only thing I've noticed that I might be able to count as progress is, when I do anything with elbow extension (we'll say, princess grip shoulder mount) if it feels like there's over stretching of the tendons or the muscles aren't pulling their weight, I'm not in immediate pain and doomed to message my elbow day in day out for the next week. I took some time off of work and am allowed to go back next week, but I'm still afraid of my muscles not catching up to where I am skill wise :/I'm assuming then, that actupuncture helps circulate blood flow in a specific area? And that's why you feel less pain? More blood flow = faster healing is what I've always been told.
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I hate to necro a thread, but how did this go for you? I have a friend who just offered me their services half off but don’t want to spend the money because every medical professional I know basically rolls their eyes at accupuncture.
I have tendinitis in my elbow, and I know it takes an average of 4-6 months to completely recover, but maybe if it worked for you it will work for me too?
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haha, Lyme. "I can't wait until I get my period again."
Never heard that one before.
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there were great suggestions earlier in September/end of August. I’m sure Veena will find something great for us to challenge ourselves in and I’m excited to see what it is as well. My studio opens back up on 8th of this month and I can’t wait to stop recording in my ghetto garage. Maybe my first completed challenge?
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It's incredibly hard to do anything split grip or anything upisidedown. It takes a while to adjust. I had to work two weeks at Christie's before I could even climb the pole. Depending on how long you've been pole dancing, you might be able to adapt more quickly. It's very difficult for me to do inverted V or anything where only my hands are holding. Shoulder Mount was impossible. Knee Holds, CKR, CAR, leg hangs, jade are all very comfortable, surprisingly. Also, flag seems a lot easier. I recommend trying the pole before you plan a routine. They're not impossible to work with, but it's like trying to pole off of a tree.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3xVHwp0tLg
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Pink Puma does something very very similar, except for she holds herself with her forhead and extends her leg. I'm sure by adjusting the hands the forehead "hold" would not be necessary 😛
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CapFeb
MemberSeptember 29, 2012 at 10:43 pm in reply to: What does your MOTHER think about poledancing?My mom was actually really supportive about pole as a sport and not as work. She understands that for me there's a difference between what I do at work and what I do at home. She wasn't open to trying pole because she has some self image issues, and her knee is too bad to do floorwork, but she likes watching pole with me and sometimes goes to the studio with me to watch new stuff :> I still wish she'd DO pole with me, though..
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D:< Hey, I wasn't done writing! Silly phone SV. Anyway, if it's something that's genuinely making you upset, pole isn't for everyone. But if you really love spectating and want to feel the way you did when you first took a pole class, try as hard as you can for as long as you can.
In short, pole is a lot like falling in love. You can sign up on dating websites and look really hard (training, conditioning, practicing) and then sometimes you find 'the one' (when you get a move you weren't even trying to do/somehow find yourself in a move you didn't know you could do.) Just give it some time :3
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I try to never compare myself to other dancers because for me personally, it leads me to one ore two things:
1) I either feel ugly because I'm not good like they are, which is a horrible feeling to have
2) I feel like a bitch for listing reasons I'm better than someone. Ego isn't flattering on everyone.If you want to compare yourself to a dancer, do it in a positive manner that will get you somewhere. When my instructor told me that she was jealous of me for mastering the shoulder mount so quickly, I turned around and told her I was jealous because she wasn't afraid to do knee holds. I still don't practice them, I'm actually terrified of anything relating to feet/knees holding. If you work hard, you'll get to where you're going. There's always going to be people who are better than you at everything, pole, work, whatever. And then you're going to be better at it than some people. I'm good at anything involving inverts; my instructor is good at flexy stuff. We all have our own things that we're good/bad at, you just have to find what you're good at and strengthen it. Then go on and make peace with all the other things you want to conquer. One thing I notice about Alethea Austin is that she is the queen of floorwork. Floorwork could be your niche. Explore yourself a bit :3
"The only reason to look into your neighbor's bowl is to make sure they have enough to eat" is the phrase that I remind myself. Just because someone can do one thing doesn't mean they can do it all; and even if you can shout out tricks at them and they can preform them all doesn't make them as happy as you are. Some of the girls at my studio absolutely hate pole and have fallen out of love with it somehow.
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also; holy crap is stripperweb outdated! Half the clubs that I've worked in aren't even listed! And then all of the reviews are from like, years ago. I mean, atleast it's something but I normally use yelp because atleast it's recent 😛
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It also depends on your area, the shift (day or night) and whether or not it's a weekend, the end of the month, the middle, the season. There's a lot of factors.
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The studio I visit in the Bay Area just sent me an e-mail about aerial silks for kids. I bet you $100 that no one in the media would ever cover it because it's SILKS. So even though aysha stag and double stag in silks are EXACTLY THE SAME POSITION and you can do gemini on silks (not sure of the term) and gemini on pole, but because there's a pole it's not art, it's sexual. I just don't understand people who hate pole and think it's sleezy, but then casualy sit there and smile at a cirque de soleil show. SMH.
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CapFeb
MemberSeptember 25, 2012 at 5:54 am in reply to: Interesting piece on Anderson Cooper’s show about children and poleI wouldn't mind if I had kids and they did pole in their underwear. I pole in my underwear. I'd assume their father would pole in his underwear (only in my dreams will the father of my children ever pole..)
I don't get why parents get all butthurt about pole when they say pole is sexual and they're showing so much skin. When I go to waterparks here in Phoenix, I am normally wearing more clothing than 90% of the 6 year olds. Just because it's a bathing suit doesn't make it okay for you toddler to walk around in a bandaeu top and a scrunch butt near-thong bottom. Maybe it's one of those things that I would have to be a parent to understand?
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Ah, I just found out my video is too big to send to you through e-mail. Thoughts or suggestions? I spent a lot of time on my video and will feel defeated if I just send you the script 😛
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MemberSeptember 24, 2012 at 4:57 pm in reply to: Interesting piece on Anderson Cooper’s show about children and poleI just get a preview, but I don't even bother watching shows like this anymore. Male hosts almost always relate it to being taboo, while the female hosts (who have usually taken a class) try to explain how DIFFICULT it is just to do a pole hold. The men can't really say because they haven't tried and probably don't want to appear gay. BECAUSE REMEMBER EVERYONE, IF YOU POLE DANCE YOU ARE A DISGUSTING STAIN ON SOCIETY. You spend your nights taking your clothes off and snorting coke in your strip club job. And if you're GUY and you pole dance, you're obviously gay and that's wrong, too.
God I hate the media -_-
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Depending on where the pain is in your shoulder blades, it might be because you are over working the muscles or inverting prematurely. I'd talk to a doctor about it and continue to do ab strengthening (which you can do every day) and forearm/wrist conditionin (about 2-3 times a week). Good luck!
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What really helped me was going from crucifix into a pole hand stand. I had to do headstands first because I have such weak elbows, but if you can do handstands first, go for it. You'll have to learn them eventually anyway 😛
I had to learn how to breathe like that–I used to be able to get into an inverted move, and then only hold it for a second or two because I was caught up in making my lines perfect/subconcious upsidedown sorcery that I forgot to breath. BREATHING. IS. SO. IMPORTANT. Especially since you are upsidedown! If you are already okay with your breathing, then the next thing to do is move on from crucifix.
One is supposed to be easier than the other, and everyone is different. Try leg positioning from the ground; inside leg hang or outside leg hang. Whichever you feel more comfortable in. Then, you try these postions from a pole handstand out of crucifix so your belly button is still facing the pole. I recommend gemini (outside leg hang) first, but that's just because I feel the gemini climb is essential for intermediate to advanced transitioning. That's just my opinion.
A great strength building exercize for inverting is chopper/inverted v. You can cheat when you do chopper by bringing the pole in very close to the groin, where the knee connects with the pelvis? There is a bit of a grip there if you lean back a bit. Always remember to do conditioning on your forearms and wrists atleast twice a week before and after you learn a new move. Some of these moves can cause a lot of stress on your tendons, which can leave you off of the pole for weeks.
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Okay, so you don't need help with the inverting part, just what to do after you find yourself upsidedown?
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What have you tried so far, so I'm not suggesting things you've probably already heard? 😛