Wow, it sounds like you can definitely relate to the frustration! Funny that you mention relaxin – I’m a massage therapist, and I had a postpartum client come in yesterday for a massage.. She told me she kept dislocating her ribs and was having all sorts of pain in her hips since giving birth. All of her joints had a crazy amount of range of motion that she said was not the case before getting pregnant. There is such a lack of research on chronic conditions that mainly affect women – I hope this changes and I hope you’re right about menopause bringing some relief.